Happy Holidays
13 years ago
2/17/09
So i don't really know how to write what im feeling but i need to get it out somehow even if its just for myself to read.. Why do people think that parents getting divorces are only hard when the kids are little? It sucks because im an adult and she be able to handle but there are days when i just want to scream and cry all at the same time..I love my parents to death and I am glad they like to talk to me but sometimes my mom will just act like its nothing to me and I get off the phone and have a melt down.. I do want them to be happy don't get me wrong but sometimes I just wish people would understand that just because Im an adult i might be having a hard time still...
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Ooooooohhhhhh Megan!! I am so sorry I had no idea you were having to go through that and of course it's hard no matter how old you are. I'm glad you can write down what you are feeling because it helps to just get it out when you don't feel like anyone's listening or understanding how you might be feeling. Hang in there...and know I am thinking about you and praying for you!!
I put of course it's hard but what I meant was I imagine it would be hard no matter what age you are...I made it sound like I had gone through it and knew how you were feeling when I really don't know how you are feeling...
Oh Megan, I am so sorry. It's never easy, no matter how old you are. You know through my blog about my marriage. Luckily, my son is only 2 so he doesn't know what is going on. I think it's more difficult when you're older. Know that you are loved and if you're not in the mood to deal you don't have to answer the phone.
It is hard sometimes:( You can always talk to me about your feelings toward the whole situation.
Megan. I am so sorry with what has been happening. I totally agree it is hard no matter how old you are. I cannot even imagine how hard it would be. I have seen the struggles of siblings going through them, and it isn't easy at times. Hang in there and know that you have every right to feel the way you do.
Hey Meg, I know how you feel, I mean I was only 11 at the time when I went through it, and it is still hard sometimes. I just have to remeber that my parents are so much happier when they are not married to each other, I know that sounds dumb but they are. They are actually pretty good friends and it is much easier fot my and my sister and brother. I know this probably won't help much but I am here anytime if you ever want or need to talk. xoxo!
Hey Megan, I'm sorry for what is happening....and I can say this time, I know what you're going through! I'm totally on your level with it affecting adults too. I'm 26 and it is still hard for me and sometimes I still get upset about it. I was a junior when my parents got divorced, it is now 10 yrs later..(I think), it's gotten better over the years. But it is definately normal how you are feeling. It is also good for you to talk about it, so don't bottle it up....it just makes it longer for you to accept and move on. My parents have both remarried and I now have step brothers/sisters which itself was hard to accept, but like I said, over time it does get easier....but it sucks and it sucks bad! Keep your head up and don't be shy or embarrased to talk about it okay! :) If you ever need to talk, I'm all ears.
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